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Okay so this guy i like is in the Army, hes in the program where you go to school, but still train and what not for the army the whole time. Hes gone for the summer and comes back in august to go back to school and stuff. Well i leave for boot camp for the Navy and i leave before he gets back. i wont see him til september (i get to come home for 2 weeks), so i was wondering should i get a card and give it to him before he leaves, just saying "have fun take care, i know you'll be back but i wont see you" type thing.. or should i give it to his brother to have him put it in his room so when he gets back it'll be there on his night table type thing, saying "hey you just missed me by a few days haha, hope you had a good time, see you when i get back take care miss you." type thing?
orrrr just forget the whole idea?
honestly. i like this guy, ALOT.. the day i met him we had so much in common, i'm a girlie girl type but i like to do the guy stuff. everyone we hang out with is always hitting on me, and personally i think it bothers him so he tends to be standoffish. i've spent the last week hanging out with him, and stayed over twice.. no sex just talked and enjoyed ourselves. hes told me hes interested in me, he has been but at first so many people were trying to force him to see me too (which i totally hate because they did the same thing to me, which made us not want to try getting to know each other at all..)that we just didnt really spend a lot of time together, and he wants to take things slow. (works for me honestly, no reason to rush) and we've both said whatever happens happens.
i dont know. hes a real honest guy, sometimes too honest haha, but we both constantly give that look to one another.. the we've got connection type look, heck i dont know how to explain it.. ah. seriously this stuff has been on my mind all week.. i'm stressed. truly i'm afraid he leaves, i leave, he comes back.. then i come back. and we dont even talk. and how embarrassing would it be to not even speak when i get back, and i had left that card on his night stand for him to read. HA.. i'd feel so dumbbb.. i think i'm just over reacting? yet i really cant help it.. i've tried to just stick to the whatever happens happens, but i guess i want good things to happen and come out of this lol.
okay any advice would be wonderful.
as you can see girls, and guys too please, i'm quite confused/concerned/worried/tripppinn haha.
thanks a million. (link)
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my opinion is that you do both! i think you should give him a card beofre he leaves, this way he knows that you care about him and he will be thinking about you whille he is gone. and then also leave one with his brother, this will remind him, that you are still thinking about him and can't wait to see him! taking it slow is a good idea, but if you dont leave the cards... you may regret it later on. and what is the worst that can happen, you guys dont talk taht much after you both get back. even then he will know that you care about him and wish him the best... there is nothing embarrasing about that. chances are though he will be so excited that you even though to leave a card!
I truly hope things work out for you! Good luck :)
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