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15/f

ive recently realized that i have a hard time talking about myself and my problems to my friends. sometimes i feel like my problems are too boring or too weird compared to other peoples' problems.

for example, way one of my problems that i wish i could talk about is this problem itself. but i feel like i'll be judged badly and im scared that nobody will be interested long enough in what im saying to help me through it.

honestly, the only problem im comfortable with sharing is boy problems because there are so many diff ways you can go with it, and it is "socially acceptable" to have boy problems. everybody has them and boys are fun to talk about! but i dont really have that many boy problems, and its pretty boring to talk about one problem all the time.

ive never really let myself become vulnerable before, you see, so right now im trying to learn.so i just need advice on how to do this. thanks.

Hello,

You sound just like someone I know. He has the same issues. He is my lover, best friend and soon to be husband.

He has learned how to deal with them through educating himself on the issues and why he has them.

Here are two links for you to go read up on it.

http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/aswhatisit.html
http://www.aspergers.com/


Good Luck

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(Rating: 1) 1) im female
2) i do NOT have aspergers
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