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Q: Okay, everyone who knows my boyfriend knows that he's IN LOVE with me.
He' 16, I'm 14.
He's been through a lot and is mature enough to know the difference between lust, like, love, and being in love.
He's liked and loved...but I'm the first he's been in love with and, ask ANY ONE, I'm the only and first girl he's ever cried over.
That's not normal for him.
Well I really do love him.
I REALLY am in love with him....
And I know that this is a stupid question but is it possible to be in love at 14 and actually STAY TOGETHER?
My mother has been in love with my dad since she was 17 so yeah....but I know being in love has a lot to dowith maturity. Well I've only had one other bf besides him and so yeah.
He's had like 5 or 6 haha.
But anyway, I went through steps. Like I liked him at first, then later on I loved him, then now I love him.
We've been together for almost 6 months and his dad plays the wedding song as a joke.
He never did that to any girl but me. My bf's brother is the one who tries to break people up and I'm the only one he actually told "Sky, my brother is i love with you and if you don't break up with him, I know this for a fact ya'll will get married."
The thing is if we did it wouldn't be til I'm like well in my 20's. I'm too young to rush that haha, and so is my bf and he knows it. But this is the most serious relationship he's ever been in and he has his mind and heart hell-bent to stay with me forever...and I do too.....
I know if I'm sooo sure why should I even ask..?
I just have to know you alls opinion. Mostly because my parents are like w/e but my mother is finally starting to realize-well she knew he was in love with me- but she's finally seeing i feel the same...
Well just wondering thanks ya'll!
yes. it def. is possible. while some might not make it to marriage it is possible. i have been dating my boyfriend since i was 14 and i am now 16. i am very much in love with him, and am a firm believer of if you love him, then you will do anything to stay with him.
good lucky sweetie.

-jessicamarie.

thanks so much, i just needed some encouragement! thanks hun

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jessicamarie
I just your average teen age girl, except i've gone through a lot of hardships that no one should go through, much less a teenager. I have a lot of experience with giving advice and love to do it. I am spirited and willful. I would love to help anyone i can no matter what the situation. I hate when people judge others, and make it my goal to not judge others. Everyone has their unique characteristics that should be uplifted and not put to shame.

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