I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
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Age: 15
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iv never had an actual "bf" but many very close guy friends. but recently my best friend, the guy who i trusted my life with made my life a living hell and screwed up every possible thing, bc we liked eachother. hes afraid of me cause i get"to close" to guys. i just hug everyone and i like it when guys hold me, i just feel that no guy loves me at all. he ruined me and i can not trust anyone even if its a girl, i had all my trust in him. we hate eachother and fight so much somedays but others we like eachother we just forgive eachother way to easy. i need to get over him and iv been tryin for the past year but i just cant, its hard to explain, weve been best friends then he has the most retarded reason and then ruins me over and over again. i know ud say just try and get over him but iv done every possible thing, i just cant. i dont know what to do?
im soo love sick. iv always been better friends with guys but recently iv been suck an ass to guys i only have two close guy friends left. i just think any guy friends will hurt me again, so im a jerk to them and they did nothing im the biggest bitch there is :c so iv been falling for any guy i meet and talk to alot. then i never see them again and i get heartbroken. i hug and cuddle with them, but some i just talk to for hours. example> last guy i met at cousins party, we flirted from the very beginning then on and off i would be a jerk to him and then he asked me to dance and i said no bc i was texting the guy who hurt me at the moment and then he was sad and left for a while then at the end insteada sayin bye i said jackass and left crying, ive never been like this but i was hurt so bad and i hate hurting other guys for no reason im such a drama and jerkkk to guys, he is three years older than me and he didnt care hes liked me before he even knew :(. i love a guy, flirt talk for hours and cuddle then end up bein an ass what can i doo, i just cant get over it? i dont even know what love is anymore, and the thing i hate the most is their so nice to me and ima bitch backkk Dx. what do i do for either or both paragraphs??? fourteen by the wayy (link)
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okay it sounds like you are having some major trust issues... and i can relate. for me it was this guy who i was head over heels for and he hurt me but i always kept taking him back because i lived him so much. what you have to tell yourself is you are BETTER than this. you deserve someone who treats you wonderfully and who loves you more than anything. you need someone who makes all other guys look like nothing compared to him. and it seems like you will never find him, but you have to have an open mind. treat every guy you meet like he could be your next love. and you have to remember...just because one guy f**ked you over doesnt mean that all guys will. i know probably more than most that trusting is one of the hardest things to do...because tou dont want to fall and get hurt but you have to believe that eventually there will be a guy that will pick you back up. and i know you dont want to hear it but you HAVE to move on from this guy that hurt you. he hurt you hun... more than once. he doesnt deserve you!! someone once gave me the advice... if he hurts you once, shame on him... but if he hurts you twice, shame on you. it is time for you to beleive in yourself enough to know that you deserve way better than this guy. if you need someone to talk to... you may even want to consider counseling. i talked to the school counselor a couple times after i was ruined by a guy and it really helped me. it doesnt have to be from school, just anyone who will listen. and i am always here if you need to inbox me or you can email me at the adress on my page. talking about it will help you... and everytime he calls or texts you remember he HURT you.. if it helps in your phone, instead of his name... write "don't answer, he hurt you" thats what i did when the guy who hurt me kept trying to get back with me.
you deserve better than this.... and you deserve the best. not all guys are complete ass holes and eventually you will learn to trust again... just give it time..
I hope i helped :)
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thank you sooooo much, but we were best friends all our lives and he was the only person i trusted and we both fell in love and he fell out bc i hugged him to soon... i lost my best friend to a crush
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