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There is this girl, sammy, last summer she got with this guy i really really liked. i didnt know her at first, but after she realized that me and her boyfriend had a really long and meaningful history she got extremely jealous. She would often wait until i was walking by and kiss her boyfriend, the one i liked, or tell him how much she loved him and how glad she was that they were together, just so i could hear. and i knew this because she would give me a very smug smile after she saw the look of hurt on my face.

..well sammy and her boyfriend broke up and i had finally moved on from him. two weeks ago i was out on a date and she happened to see us. then just two days ago i found out that the guy i had been on the date with is now her boyfriend. I am not really mad at the boy, i mean yea it sucks that he blew me off for her... but hey thats life. but i can't help but thinking that this is a really bad coincidence?

any opinions... is this just a crazy coincidence? or is this girl out to get me and hurt me whatever way possible. i just dont want this guy to get hurt if she is just dating him to get back at me! (link)
Some people get pleasure in hurting others. And it seems like she is jealous of you.
She could just be totally inocent and just happen to like the guys you do, and she gets them, and somehow doesnt notice that she is hurting you (but i truely doubt that)

I would try talking to her, but some people are hard to talk to...
I dont know how old you are, but if you are in school, you could get your councelor to have a talk with you and her, and try to fix things, and if you arent in school, im sorry i can not think of anything, but talkng to her, or the guys. If you can get to the guys, without her biting your head off first.
I hope i helped, and good luck with her!


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