I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
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Age: 15
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A long time ago (a couple years) i was told that a family member i'm close to was sort-of abandoned at birth by her mum. Here's the story -
Her mum was overwhelmed by her birth, and this huge change to her life that she had 'sencond thoughts'. she took this family member to my granny, who took her in - and would have raised her if need be - but my granny (after a night or so) managed to convince the mother to take her back.
If this family member (that i'm v.close to) found out about this (i only just found out she doesn't know) whoknows what could happen to her. She hasn't had the best life - her parents divorced, she gets bullied badly etc... - and this could make it worse (if she finds out).
My Mum told me about 3 or 4 hours ago (we got onto the subject when i was talking to her about my family for a family tree project at school) that i'm not even to breathe a word to any one other than her.
About 1 or 2 hours ago i realized that i have told someone. I think i told 1/2 people, but i'm not sure. I'm not even sure who. I told them trusting them not to say a word to anyone and even though i know they've probably forgotten (i told them a while ago) or if not they would have said by now if they were going to say, but i still can't help feeling sort of scared she'll find out and guilty for telling.
I dont want you to tell me it's alright etc... but have you got any advice for me? Also should i tell my mum that i think i told someone? Thanks loads!!!!!! (link)
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yes, tell your mom! she will be able to calm your fears and help you come up witha plan. also think very closely about who you told and do damage control ASAP!
Good luck :)
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Thanks, i did tell my mom and thigs are cool now =D
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