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E-mail: xkelseyx12@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
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There's this boy that I'm completely head over heels for. Have been since last school year! I met him a year & a half ago and I've been drooling over him for a year. Now, my crushes usually last like a month at the most( I've only had one other crush that went on for 4 years but now I'm just kind of like "I want to be his best friend forever' mode with him now) so I know that I really like this boy. But the problem is that he's a grade higher than me & so we don't have ANY classes together (MAYBE a math class next year but I think he's taking a different math class) so I don't really see him much. We talk sometimes but it's just a plain "Hey buddy" type of talks. And he has been going out with my sort of okay friend (like, we're more than acquaintances but not enough of friends to actually hang out?)for a month and he still is going out with her. But I don't know if I'm making it up (probably) but I still feel like he has some type of feeling other than friendship with me because last year HE really liked me (it's an irrefutable fact) & today I saw him when he was dropping his gf off at school & he asked if I needed a ride since we lived like 2 min away from each other & he seemed like he wanted to. Like I told him my mom was coming but he kept asking if I was sure and went ahead and made me call my mom. And now I wish I could've just gotten a ride with him although my mom was indeed on her way to pick me up *sigh*
But anywhos, next year is his senior year and I don't want to either think about him any longer or just straight out tell him everything I think about it. But I can't do the first one no matter how hard I try and I shouldn't do the second one because he has a gf who happens to be like okay friend.
What should I do? Don't tell me to hang out with my friends because my mom hates my friends & she "banned" me from them (no joke).
Thanks a bunch (link)
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you really need to talk to him, because it is not fair of him to be sending you mixed feelings. you just need to sit down with him and sey "okay we need to get things straight because it seems to me like you are sending me mixed signals because i get the feeling that you maybe have other feelings for me other than friendly." then tell him that you have feelings for him but you obviously aren't going to do anything about these feelings while he has a girlfriend. if he tells you that he has feelings for you, tell him that you aren;t going to do anything with him unless he breaks up with his gf. and if he says that he doesnt feelings for you, you need to move on. it may be hard to hear, but you have to know for sure. and if he doesnt have feelings for you, there is no use in waiting around.
Good luck :) if you need anything else just ask!
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Thank you =)
I think I might give him a note tomorrow...if I see him that is. I'm not sure.
But I really don't want to cause drama between him, his gf, and me. =/
I'll be sure to inbox you if I need to, though..
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