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ok the thing is a friend of mine might be bi. but the thing is, would she act any different if she is? i mean i havent known her for long, and i dont know if she acted differently b4. but a friend of hers and mine as well(she known her 3 years ago) told me she acted different this year. im worried, does it make a difference if a persons not straight? one of my friends told me she had a bi friend and dat she isnt different. well the thing is i dont noe any bi or gay or lesbian people so i dont know. i need advice! please! thank you.

Hello,

Wow, are you ok? You seemed really bothered by someone's sexual preference.

It should not matter to you what her sexual preference is unless you plan to have sex with her.

People experience life differently. Therefor people change. I am not the same person I was a year a ago and neither are you! You may look the same, but I bet you have changed somethings about yourself, right?

The best thing for you to do is talk to the girl and get to know her.

I had a friend in high school that I hung with ALL the time. She was straight when we met. About a year into our friendship she cheated on her boyfriend with a girl. I had no idea she was bi. I didn't stop being her friend because she was bi. I stopped being her friend because she cheated on her boyfriend, who also happened to be a close friend I had known much longer than her.

The point is, never try to figure someone out according to race, color, sex preference or religion. Always judge them on their actions and moral ethics. Befriend this girl even if she is bi. How do you know you are not bi yourself? Have you tried it? I haven't yet, and don't plan on it, but you never know what the future holds.

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