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Okay, I'm a female/12, my ex-boyfriend is really pissed because i broke up with him on a wednsday, and was asked out 2 days after, an I said yes. And now hes really mad, and told my new boyfriend to F*** Off! Should I talk to my ex? What would I say? What should I do??!!

Hi,

The situation really depends on how you feel about your ex. If you still like him and think that he is a good guy for you then you should talk to him. Im guessing you just recently started going out with this new guy so there arent too many feelings as of yet, at least not too strongly. If you dont want to get back with your ex then you still need to talk to him. Go with a friend to ensure that if he gets mad there is someone there for back-up. Your ex cant control you or your new BF...all he can do is make crude remarks to you and him.
What to say: You can tell your ex about how you feel about the sitaution and that you will take the necessary actions to ensure that he discontinues harassing you and your new BF. You could also say that you will involve and adult if he continues to harrass you and your BF. Most kids will become disenchanted by this statement and cease to cause you trouble...And dont worry...Your not a tattle-tale. Your ex may have some harsh things to say. Dont let them effect you. You left him,hence forth you have the upper hand in this situation. It would probably be best however if you were to talk to your ex without your current BF. Him being there could cause anger to rise and a fight to break out, and no one wants that. The best thing to do is to tell him how you feel, and not to give into his pittiful attempts to ruin your life because you left his.
I hope it helps.

Best of Luck

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