Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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okay so im 15....
and
pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.
anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..
REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!
also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.
so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.
how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.
when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?
can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?
either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.
i live in florida if that helps?
thank you. (link)
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Hey there sweetie I know its hard right now. You have got to talk to someone in your family, I would go to your mom first you dad does not sound like the kind of person I would want to tell right off the bat. Maybe once you tell your mom if you are really close to her and trust her then maybe she can sit down with you and yall can tell him together. If you are not close enough for that maybe you should consider telling him with the baby's dad's parents they might be willing to help you. You need to put it out there that you are refusing to have an abortion that you want to keep it. Im sorry but teenagers can raise kids on their own sure its rough on them and sure it makes you grow up faster but those kids are still yours and they will still love you. Every parent makes mistakes we all know that but you can grown and learn with your baby. The father may stay around.... he may not he may be there for a while then not want to be with you then go and still see the baby. Then also he may leave you never know..... but chances are if hes here for you now he will be for you later too because right now and up till you have the baby will be the hardest part to get through because once you have your child then people get to hold it and see how adorable it is. I have a story for you I want you to read I would type it up for you on here but I am short on time I have to get to work but there is a short version of it on my column page.... its in where it talks about me under the picture. read it for me please... then if you wanna talk come talk feel free!!! Good luck! Sarah
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thank you so much. i read your colum and i think you gave a good honest advice because you have been in my situation kind of. i told my mom and we are telling my dad on sunday.... thank you
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