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Member Since: May 24, 2008
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Im sorry, this might turn out sort of long and it probably should have gone under the love catagory. Im fourteen, female, a freshman in highschool.
Anywho, I have chronic fatigue syndrome and maybe mild social anxiety or something of the like and Im just starting to get over it so Ive been homebound for the past three months.
And theres this guy. We talk pretty often, on the computer and the telephone and whatnot. It was only the night before last [todays the twentyfourth] that we both confessed to liking each other. Hes moving further up state come the end of summer. But I really want to actually GO OUT, you know? Im not sure if he thinks were a couple or not. Itd be hard especially because we dont see each other much. I tried to check his details on myspace, but he hid them. Id feel like a fool for asking him. I just really dont know what to do. And when we do talk, conversation is kind of awkward I guess because...I dont know. GAHHH
Sorry, its long enough. Haha. (link)
you are 14, go out. don't take one boyfriend. take friends. go out with different guys (in a group, your 14). enjoy being 14, have fun in life and don't take everything so seriously. highschool is so much fun. join clubs, join sport teams, take part in highschool events. really have fun. enjoy 14,15,16,17 and so on. turn off your computer and myspace, start living, start going out (in groups, your 14), make friends. invite people over to watch movies, to play board games or what ever. go shopping, make a date to go out to eat with your friends.

a boyfriend will come, but he takes time and energy. he will be there for a few weeks or months and then be gone, your friends you will have much longer than that.

enjoy 14.


Rating: 5
its tough because actually a majority of my friends are moving here or there over the summer, or they already have. and its hard to go places with my condition. but ive decided to retake the ninth grade to make up for all the social opportunity ive missed. so ill get to enjoy fourteen twice! haha. but thanks so much, every bit of advice will help =]




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