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I need an honest viewpoint on this.
Lets say you're a 16 year old girl and you broke up with your 16 year old boyfriend (which is my case). You broke up with him because he's been giving you really obvious hints that he didn't wanna be together anymore. He even said so one time. After a week of breaking up, he sends you a text saying something like: "You're contagious because I cried for no reason last night"
and all of a sudden, you start seeing your ex boyfriend depressed. (he never was before...in fact, he was happy). He tries to flirt with you more... He doesn't eat at lunch...he feels really sad and crappy. He doesnt flirt with girls like he usually did to try and make you jealous. He just sits in your table at lunch and sulks.
If this was your case, do you think he's depressed over the break up?
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Do NOT let him fool you. The thing about sixteen year old boy's hearts is that they do not understand what is going on. He is totally depressed over the break up but probably not because he wants you, more like because he cannot believe that he has been rejected by you. He misses what he had simply because it is not there anymore. Guys will tend to do this their whole life with relationships until they find someone new. If you get back with him, nothing will have changed and it simply gives him the opportunity to leave you and boost his own ego.
So yes, he is depressed over the break up, but not over you.
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Thank youu! That makes the most sense out of all the advice I've been given.
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