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what is the key to getting a boyfriend, and staying with him?
some might say confidence, others may say loyalty, and other important traits such as that, but im wondering, what worked for you in the past? was it just chance that brought you together or did you work on attracting a certain person by displaying confidence or whatever.
im wondering this because i havent gone out with anyone since 2 years ago, guys just dont seem interested.
thanks!

You're not "everyone else" so get off that train and walk your own path.

The key to getting a boyfriend is to stop looking for a man in your life and work on YOURSELF. Improve your own skills and work to gain new skills each year. Be honest with yourself and everyone around you. When you least expect it, you'll run into someone that just clicks for you and it'll be the same for them. If you're working on yourself, most likely they're going to be doing the same and that's a recipe for a great relationship.

That's how you get a boyfriend.

Now if you want to keep him, be completely honest with yourself and everyone around you and get a book called "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". Do a search, you'll find it.

Chance meeting or displaying confidence? Let me just say that nearly every relationship I've watched end in disaster started with a pursuit.

Do something that will make you feel good about yourself and that you'll benefit from for a lifetime. Donate blood and when you do, find out what your blood type is. Go purchase or check out that book "Diet for your Type" and at the very least, cut out the foods on your 'Bad' list.

Above all, have fun and be honest.

-- Stay Honest

(p.s. don't date men you meet in bars. Get a dog and go to the dog park, join clubs that have activities you're interested in or get involved in a cause that has meaning for you.)

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(Rating: 5) thanks this helps!
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