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Q: 16/f

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and lately I've been having crazy jealousy issues. I really have no reason to be jealous or suspicious of him because he's never really done anything to make me not trust him (that I know of). See, he's a year older than me, I'm a sophomore and he's a junior, and for half of the day he's at a different school than I am. There's a girl that goes there that also attends our school that I think he talks to. I'm weirdly jealous of this and thinking about her makes me angry. I don't even really know her other than she was in one of my classes. I always have these dreams that he leaves me for her. He denies that he even talks to her, which I know isn't true. Today we were at the store and she was there and she waved to him. It seems pretty harmless, but I got really upset.

I can't stand feeling like this :\ I get really jealous and I know it has to do with my own insecurities. But if he doesn't talk to her, and what he says is true, then this isn't fair for him.

So I suppose my question is, how would I go about getting over this stupid jealousy problem?

please help :[
The jealousy is natural but you need to change your reaction to it. When you go out if he is paying attention to you, you are missing it because you are too busy looking at who is looking at him. Enjoy your time together today, quit forseeing problems, If you make him happy right now guess who will be on his mind tomorrow. You are making memories right now, make the ones that you both wanna reminise. Enjoy him like he seems to be trying to enjoy you. Keep nagging him and you will soon have no one to nag and all he will remember will be the nagging and that will not bring him back. If you really like him quit sabotaging yourself

ugh, thank you so much. I needed to hear that.

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