Member Since: May 8, 2008
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Last Update: May 10, 2008
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I know people get sad, its going to happen, but for at least a month, ive been feeling really sad. I thought about cutting myself, and did it once but not too deep, not enough to kill me, but deep enough. And people at school have just been so...mean and guys have been rude and arrogant, and my parents are fighting and may be getting a divorce and my sister verbally abuses me,i've been doing worse in school and idk, im just DONE. How do i get out of this sadness? I just cant have fun or be happy anymore, and what can i do? I need help and dont want to ask my parents for a therapist, and i try to talk to my friends, but gossip makes it too hard in my school, so i just need some advice on how to get happy again! Thanks (link)
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Oh. You seem to be doing the same thing as me :D
I had a gun in my hand next to my head about to pull the trigger, and I was talking to my friends online telling them goodbye and such. One friend suggested that I convert to Christianity, or at least try it.
I am not trying to convert you or anything, I am just telling my story. I converted, and I have only been sad about 5 days in that whole time, and I am bipolar. I don't take any medicine for it since I have been so happy lately.
Another thing you can do is re-examine all of your friendships. Sometimes what seems like your best friend is actually someone who doesn't really talk to you much but calls you their best friend. If this is so, confront them, and tell them how you feel.
Your sister probably verbally abuses you for a reason, something out of your control. Try and have a serious talk with her and see whats wrong. Most people only verbally abuse others because it makes themselves feel better. She might be having problems with her friends and she just takes it out on you at home.
Try and find a hobby to occupy your time, like a club after school, or learn to play an instrument. I am a band geek and proud. One thing that is consistent from school to school is that the band is always like a big family. Even if you have never played an instrument before, you can learn. The band people will accept you no matter how weird you are. Or, if you join something like robotics team or something else that interests you, it will be a great opportunity to meet new people with similar interests.
Well, I hope that maybe you can find something helpful out of this. I have been through a very similar situation, so if you need to talk, add me on MSN or AIM.
MSN: Monkeyball37@hotmail.com
AIM: ConnorDaHaxxor
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Thanks, but im already Christian. also, i am in the band, but i hate it and am going to quit. i tried talking to my sister but it really didnt help. I do track after school and my best friends are trying, but just not helping. thanks anyway
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