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Okay so i was on the computer with my boyfriend and his friend and they were on some girls profile on facebook... i know the girl really likes my boyfriend and has since she met him. last september i was really jealous of her because they saw each other a lot more then me and my boyfriend do. But i got over it. Anyways they were looking at her profile and my boyfriend says to his friend yeah if she adds you im sure you could get pictures out of her i mean she sent me ones of her in her bra. So I didnt want to jump to conclusions i didnt want to accuse him of asking for them so i tried to keep myself from getting angry at him so i asked him if i could talk to her about it ( ive always been nice to her even though after we met in person she told all her friends i was an ugly slut... i told her i understood what it was like to really like someone that is taken and that i didnt hate her for saying that) anyways when i asked him he said no because im not supposed to know .SO, my question is do you think he asked for them or she just sent them cause they were flirting or whatver (ive caught him flirtig with her this december) do you think that they both agreed not to tell me about it and it slipped when he was there talking to his friend. he really seemed to shrug it off like it was nothing i dotn know what to do. do i bring it up with him even though he has a really bad temper and we have been fighting alot lately i really love him and i dont want to start a fight i just want to know whats happening, i know a picture in your bra isnt the end of the world but she still sent it to him and he still looked at it. hes like dont worry i dont have it anymore. BUT still im kind of confused. anywyas i was just wondering if anyone understood maybe whats going on in his head im not really sure what to make of this or how big of a deal it is. Thanks(:
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ps: weve been dating almost a year (link)
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WOW..dump him. i know it seems at the moment that you love him a lot and even thoguh you have been together for almost a year, he is still a sleezbag. who the hell would ever get pictures sent to them from a girl they know likes them and then say it in front of their girlfriend? like seriously..if my boyfriend ever did that i would break up with him right away because i think that looking at pictures of someone else or asking for them and not telling you is unfaithful. and then he says it in front of you like he doesn't care about your feelings at all. and also, if a girl called another girl an ugly slut i would think that her boyfriend would defend her and not like that girl, not FLIRT with her! that is horrible of him. and don't worry what that girl says because she obviously just doesn't have enough confidence and self-esteem, that is why she called you that because she is jealous of your boyfriend, and also she is a pathetic person for sending pictures of herself in her bra just to try to get a guy to like her..hmm desperate much? seriously dump that asshole and let him be with that whore. sorry if this offends you. i just can't believe he would do that he should be defendign you if she said that to you.
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Thanks i apreciate your honest opinion, as bad as this sounds ive gotten used to him being like that as much as i know i shouldnt be i just dont really have anyone to talk about it with.. anyways thanks for the advice.
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