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I'm a psychology major and a Christian. That's all you really need to know about me here.
Member Since: April 25, 2008
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Last Update: April 4, 2009
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it seems to me like there is this universal standard look of beauty..... long flowy hair (even beyoncay, hale bare, maraiah carey spend hours turning it into something Caucasians and Latinas have) what ever happened to curly hair? even curls the curls the have are fake!
not that i am saying all those women are ugly or anything but if thats the standard then heck i'm way out of the picture....... and its making me feel terrible. i am not fat or anything, my face is clear no acne... its just that my nose isn't a ski slope, my hair is super curly and my eyes are pit black (i know that is anatomically not possible but it is the last shade of brown before black!) i'm not tall (only 5'4) and i only fit into a size 8 (sometimes!).........

this sounds cheesy but seriously with that high of a standard what are my odds to look beautiful in the eyes of someone?! if there are any odds at all...

this is really depressing ... (link)
I know just how you feel. Not fitting into the typical definition of what is beautiful sucks, but try to remember that God made you look the way you do on purpose and that alone makes you beautiful. He also created a specific person whose idea of what is beautiful is exactly what you are. It may suck until you meet that person, but as long as he and God find you beautiful, screw what the rest of the world thinks!




Rating: 5
i'm so afraid that he ma not even exist! :S but thank god someone knows what i am going through...




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