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I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her. She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does. The problem is that I cant stop loving her. What am i supposed to do? Does anyone think I stand a chance. (link)
Love it a very painful thing sometimes. Sometimes the ones we love are not the ones who love us. I understand that you are experiencing a very rough time in life right now, but you can't force someone into loving you. If she said that she does not and does not see anything happening in the future then you need to move on. I know it is going to be very difficult, but it has to be done. There is someone out there for everyone. Actually there are more than one, but one will come around sooner or later. My advice is to try to move on and let love find you because if you are searching for it, you will never find it. I hope I helped and I am sorry that things did not work out for you and this girl, it takes a lot of nerve to go up to somebody and tell them your feelings. And look at the bright side of things at least you are able to remain friends with her. keep your head up.


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Cheer mate. ur right.




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