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well i like this guy and i have reason to believe that he likes me to. but its weird because when i am around him and my friends are there its like he feels a little out of place because he doesn't know them that well. but then when i am just with him we have so much to say. i mean its just so easy to talk to him. i want to get to know him better but if we are alone together it seems like a date or something which is weird because dates kind of freak me out. we hung out today with a group of friends but it was just better when i could sit down next to him and just talk. what should i do to get to know him better? thanx

it looks like hes not all that comfortable to be around people he barely knows, which is fine. the more he hangs out with your friends, the more he will warm up to them. it takes time.

since you guys like to be alone while you talk i suggest going out to get some dinner. that way, you both are sitting face to face, alone, and you have time to talk about anything and everything.

a movie would be an ok idea just to be alone, but im sure talking wouldnt happen while you watch the movie since you would be too focused on the movie. so if you ever just want to cuddle up with him alone, then going to the movies is a for sure thing.

you could also go to eachothers houses, the park, or walk around the mall together to communicate some more. theres so many places you guys can go to be in your own world to talk.
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(Rating: 5) thanx for all the great ideas =]

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