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heyy. i really liked the advice i saw you give. so im 14 and a female. i really like this guy who goes to my school and in my grade. we are always talkin and textin each other. and we always flirt. all my friends tell me to ask him out and all his friends tell him to ask me out. i know he likes me, but if he does why dont he ask me out then? i really want to go out with him,but if i ask him out what if he says no, then out friendship would be weired. should i wait for him to make the first move and ask me out, or should i make the first move and ask him out???????
thanks :]

well i already know that you both have the same feelings towards each other since you both seem to be talking a lot. so thats good.

believe it or not, guys are just as scared to do some things. especially at asking out a girl. they get nervous beyond belief, which shows that they really do like you but their something is holding them back because they too are hate rejection.

you need to take charge and make this happen. if you dont want to be the one to ask him out, then reel him in to doing it himself.

in other words, show him that you are interested and dont hold back. make him feel comfortable enough to be himself around you and everything should go smooth from there.

if a guy is intimidated, then he will tense up and he will be terrified to make any kind of move.

so show him what you have to offer, and soon enough he will be asking you out in no time. i promise.
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(Rating: 5) thanks. you give great advice (:
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