I'm a happily married Wife of 18 years with 5 beautiful children. I have created with my Husband a Family life I never thought possible in this world of turmoil and confusion. Growing up through my teen years was more like an excersize in surviving, both emotionally and mentally. The first years of my adulthood I spent re-evaluating all that I had lived through, and then rebuilding myself into a person I liked and wanted to be. The realization that changed my life forever was when I came to understand; I was not who or what others said I was, or wanted me to be. I didn't have to repeat my parents mistakes, when there was so many of my own I could make. I realized I alone was responsible for my choices, and for letting others treat me badly. I was no longer a child, and could demand and expect to be treated well. By freezing out those who didn't understand that for me things had changed!! I was still young, so I didn't alway's know what to do, but I sure knew what NOT to do! Which that alone is sometimes half the battle!!
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My parents have split up 6 times...
And then got back together
This is the 7th time..
And I found out that my mom had an affair 3 years ago!
I am totally stressing, and I block out my emotions until they come back, because I don't want to feel sad...
Well today I found out that my favorite person and teacher is pregnant...
I am totally like crying over it!!
Thats good news...right?
I don't feel like I can talk to her because she is preggo, there is no point in making her stress...she is having a BABY!!
So yeaa....
I think I might be depressed...and I can't handle this anymore!!!
I want to get awawy from my house, and escape my problems...and the person who I talked to about themm....I don't feel like I can talk to them...
I feel all alone...with no one to talk to...
And I almost broke down in school today...because I was soo sad...and I am glad that she will have a family of her own, but I still don't have anyone to talk to >.<
Not to mention my friends need me like I am their thera;pist, and I don't want to tell them to go away...because the need me...
What should I do???\ (link)
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First of all there is nothing you can do about your parents. Whatever is going on with them is what it is. However, as far as your pregnant teacher that you can't talk to that's another story. She is pregnant not sick or brain-dead!! If she was there for you before she will be there for you now. At least until she goes on Maternity leave. Trust me, I know about being pregnant. I have 5 children and being pregnant has never stopped me from being there to help my older kids with their problems. Unless of course I was in Labor!! lol Stop selling your teacher short, have a little faith in her ability to help you like she always has. Go talk with her and you will find your not as alone as you think you are. Take Care and have Faith. All will work out in the end.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you!!
I think I am astill going to talk to her
It helps to hear from someone who has been through it (being pregnant!!)
Thanks again =]
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