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okay, i have no idea where to put this question so i'll just put it here. okay, well i'm ALWAYS angry, or mad. i don't know why. its ruining my relationship with my friends and family. i can't help it its like if the slightest thing is happening i'll like freak out. i hate it. i say what i want when i want. i tell people what i feel when i feel about it..i can't help it. councling won't work...i've tried that...but should i try agian? i mean, i have NO idea why i act like this. and for the most time i don't think i'm that bad but others do. i really want to change. you know be a better person all around. get a better life. part of this is because like there are 3 kids in the family i'm the middle and least favorite. i try REALLY hard in school so i can get into a good college and get out of here. i hate it here. i really want to leave. but everything i do isn't good enough. so i stopped caring...and did it for me and i did SO good in school. I don't know what to do anymore..how do i become a better person? how do i stop myself from saying mean things? the smallest things bother me...

PLEASE help this is ruining my life!

i think everyone may get angry sometime in their lifetime, honestly i dont know the reason behind that, it just happens.

it seems to me that you may just need some time apart from your everyday life. as in your family and your enviorment. im not saying that what your feeling is going to make you completly want to forget about everyone you love, but sometimes we just need our space.

so look at it this way,
keep working your butt off in school like you have been doing. and once college comes around, it will pay off so much. you will be glad to know that you are at a wonderful university, AND this can be the time where you get your freedom from all the drama that you may have in your life right now.

think of it as a new beginning of a new chapter in your life.

as for the counseling, i would try and give it another shot. but try to aim for a higher kind of counseling like a shrink or somewhere in that area. their life is to truley listen to what teenagers have to say and they will give you their input as well.

sometimes all we need is someone to talk to. it relieves so much stress from our shoulders, no joke. so i would advise you to try that as well. just sit down with your best friend and talk to her about what has been going on lately.

i hope everything works out girl. (:

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