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Ok so last night mine and my sister's best friend spent the night and we decided we would write down all of our deepest darkest secrets that we havent even told each other or anyone about then we would read each others and when my friend read my list i felt so incredibly releived like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulder and now i feel like i can tell her anything and talk to her about anything but that scares me alot for some reason just knowing that if something happened she'd know and i guess just the fact that she knows pretty much everything about me now it kind of scares me ok well it scares me to death but i thought doing the whole read each others deepest darkest secerts would bring us closer i thought it'd be good for us knowing that we dotn have to hide things and keep things to ourselves why am i so scared? i mean shouldnt i be relieved and happy that we can share anything with each other? (link)
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The only reason you are feeling like this is because you worried. It takes a great amount of courage to open up completely like you did and the thing is that opening up like you did, must leave you with a sense of vulnerability.
Just try and remember that you weren't the only one who opened up completely. And that you both did. It should make you closer. You just need to trust her enough to know that your sister's best friend won't do anything to hurt you.Give it some time it will become easier for you and you should start to feel relieved.
I hope this helped.
:)
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Thanks :) maybe i jsut needed reassurance or something but it helped
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