Okay well there is this girl who I used to be like best friends with, up untill last week when i almost hit her in the cafe, but i didnt want to get introuble so i just cursed at her really load the whole 8th grade hurd me yelling, so ya she had blamed me for teling the whole school that she made out with this boy when she is goin out with this other boy, but i didnt she is the one who told the wrong person and that wrong person told the whole person so not my falt, so then she starts crying and i got mad becuase she has told ever friggen secret that i have ever told her and how many time have i cryed its messed up, other than theat she is just not a good friend, after 2 weeks of dateing her BF she had sex, but then he did her and ran,and she comes to school like naked and she is fat and never stops eating, the point is do you think im right for droping her as a friend or am i wrong?
It's a good thing that you got out of the friendship because a real friend would take the time to find out for herself whether you actually did say something like that. Don't let what she says affect you because that'll just show other people that you're vulnerable and use it against you. You also shouldn't surround yourself with people who do things like that. The girl shouldn't have put her business out in the open if she didn't want people to know in the first place, and that also shows that the person who she trusted enough to tell isn't a real friend to her either.
On another note, control your temper. I understand that you were upset and angry, but like I mentioned earlier, you shouldn't show people that you're prone to anger 'cause they will use it against you. Don't say things that are rude and disrespectful about other people, whether it's true or not. Just remember that whenever you say something about someone behind their back, whether they're your friend or not, they usually end up finding out. Just be ready for the next confrontation you have.
Hope thing'll get better for you. Take care!
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ya thanks this helps alot ur good:]
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