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SO theres this great guy who i really like (14/f). Hes amazing and I've liked him forever but my friend has this thing for him and he kinda had a thing for her and they went out for a while. He made out with her and she was his first. Well i really like him and i think i might have a chance. Now heres the difficult part. Theres this great guy who i think of as an amazing friend that i never want to lose as a friend. He comforts me when im scared (hes a big guy and beats up any kid that is mean to me) and i love him. LIKE A BROTHER. nothing more. So he likes me, and i found this out from people. Now i cant even talk to him! I'm too afraid and i don't want him to like me but i don't want to hurt him! So should i tell him i know? or just let him get over me? OR WHAT?! ah i want to try to move on with guy one but guy two is too important and i don't want guy 1 to get over me. what should i do? thanks for reading (link)
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Well, that sucks, first. Second, what I would do is think about this long and hard and the consequences. Guy 1 is "claimed" by your friend. That's a hard thing. You have to think about how that would affect both relationships. Guy 2 sounds like he really cares about you.
If I were you, which I'm not, I'd leave 1 alone and try 2. I've had wonderful luck there and none have ended in tears and lost friends. If you really don't think it would work between you and 2, or you really don't want to try, ask your friend if it'd be okay to go after 1 and let the horrendous confusion go from there.
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Rating: 5
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yeah i just don't see 2 as anything else. i told him and he is fine thanks
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