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Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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So me and this guy have been really good friends for two years now but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He talks to me constantly online and sometimes waits for me to go online all day too but whenever we plan to hang out he ends up canceling. He compliments me a lot like saying how any guy would be lucky to have me but then he doesn't answer my phone calls most of the time and avoids seeing me in person. He use to go to my school for a year and everyone thought we were dating. He also looks at me a lot when I'm not looking and we hug too. I told him I liked him once but he said he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I'm really confused! I don't know if he likes me just as a friend or if he likes me more. I know he doesn't like dating his friends because he tried it once and she ended up hating him after hey broke up. I just really need to know what you guys think. Girl are welcome to answer to if they've ever been in this situation. Thanks! (link)
Sorry that I am not a guy but I was once in this situation. Back in high school I always liked my best guy friend, he always was very outgoing and talked to a lot of girls. When I would start dateing other guys he would get very jelous of the other guy. When he would be with other girls I was the one getting jelous. We talked to each other from about 6:30 in the morning till we went to bed. We talked online on the phone and everything. We rarely hung out after school though. I think it might just be awkward for guys to hang out with their friends that are girls because people will and do get the impression that you might be more than just friends. Maybe try going out places in a big group of friends. Sense he is avoiding seeing you in person he might have feelings for you that he is trying to hide or not show or even try and forget about. Give it time something may come out of it. Like my best guy friend and I we ended up dating our junior year and now were married! We broke up after about 4 months and we didnt talk for a while but after a while we started talking again... then we started dating our senior year and we stayed together. Something may come out of it.... I dont know this probally dosent really help much but maybe it will give you a little faith. Just give it time and something may happen. I dont know how old you are either but that might have something to do with it too. In a couple months he may start to realize the feelings he has for you and maybe his feelings are mixed because he cant decide if he likes you as a girl friend type person or a best friend.


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