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Hey, I'm Melody! I've been giving advice on and off since 2003. I'm a 23 year old military wife, expecting a baby boy in August, and working on my Bachelor's degree. :)
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hi, ok well i was just wondering... i was just talking to my bf and im 14 and hes 16 and we have been best friends for like 2 years and everything and he and i makeout a lot whenever we see each other (like once a week) and i was asking him how far we would go right now in our relationship (3 months) he said 2nd (touching a girl's breast) and we have gotten close he has touched me through my bra once and my shirt one other time but im very protective of that one of the two times he did without asking and he said he was very sorry and promised not to again. anyway im moving in June so i asked what about when i leave how far? our relationship would be about 5 months. he said a hj. i was very surprised because ya hes horny like very other guy but he tries really hard to be good. he has set limits and wont put himself in a position like being home alone with me because he doesnt trust himself. hes very responcible. but hes also a 16 yr old guy. well he would be-hes turning 16 in May. yay he turns 16 and gets a hj lol
so first off if i wanted to give him a hj is that normal (i kno everyone says do what your comfortable with but would u say most 16 yr old guys have gotten a hj) the thing is im only 14 tho. a freshman. hes also a freshman but hes much older im younger and hes older. he and i are deeply in love tho so it wont be like i do that with every guy or w/e.
it would both of our firsts. he said yes because it would be somthing to remember each other by.
also dont worry cause i know i wont because im not comfortable with that. my bf doesnt know that i wont but i do. i just had some questions about if i did want to.
and i know i dont have to i mean he didnt even ask i said how far would you let us go.
thanks :)
That's the same age difference between my boyfriend and I. I lost my virginity to him when he was sixteen and I was fourteen. Awfully young I know, but I really don't regret doing it. I loved him, he loved me, and that still hasn't changed to this day. He's nineteen, and I will be seventeen soon.
What I'm trying to tell you, is that it's perfectly normal for him to want a handjob, and if you WANT to do it, then that's perfectly normal too. If you don't want to, that's also fine. You aren't ready, and there is nothing wrong with that.
I personally don't suggest doing it though, if you are going to break up after this. Seeing as how you are moving, and might not ever see him again, doing something that might possibly get you attached to him even more, is a bad idea if you ask me.
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(Rating: 5) thanks-great advice :)