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Ok, well Im kind of stuck in a situation. A few months ago i kind of liked one of my good guy friends (Nick) and he "secretly" liked me, but I also liked another guy (Scott) who ended up being my boyfriend for two months. It was during that period that i found Nick to be an amazing friend and now i see him like a brother. Ive been single for about a month and a half now and it turns out somehow my friend Nick likes me again, but now I cant see him that way at all, I just cant. He also goes to a different school and i learned from my past 2 relationships that dating guys from other schools (especially when you live in the country) doesnt work, so I know it wouldnt work if I did like him anywyas. I do like a guy from my school however. He is a bit of a player and we talk quite a bit, hes really senstive adn sweet but he "loves" this one girl who is on an exchange student program. I dont know what to do since this guy (James) wants to make out with me and stuff. He flirts with me alot but im pretty sure all he wants is action, especially since he is really into this otehr girl. The thing is, i cant help but like him. What should I do?? I dont know how to deal with my friend, if i should go for James or what?? Thanks for your time :)
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Wow, deja vu haha, well first of all you might want to tell your friend nick that you simply don't think of him in that way anymore, that you see him more as a brother figure then a boyfriend figure. As for James.. I believe to a great extent that he is just looking for action, and if you give him the action anytime he wants it just because he says he likes your or he says please or acts like he cares, Hon im afraid he’s only in it to get some. Because he obviously isn't in it for love or anything if he has stated that he likes the exchange person. Being with a player is very hard, you want him to like you, but you don't want to get hurt.
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Mslovely22
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thanks, i think your right about James
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