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ok i'm going to start off here ...ok i loss my virginity in sep. to this really cute sweet guy.((he's my bff cousin)) and we've had sex together 3 times and out of all this time he never told me that he had a girlfriend my bff and him live together ... to make a longggggg story short he broke up with his gf like a couple of weeks ago and before that i gave him a love letter telling him how i feel about him. but anyways now since he's single he havent said any thing about the letter but i go over there almost every weekend and the tension is there im very shy around him and he know that i love him and i just wanna pounce on him sooo bad ...ok hes single now but i wanna be his girl friend badly... how do i tell him verbaly that i do ... p.s i have his number but never calls ...o yeah he called me umm monday but i was in the shower i diddnt call back help me i really love him

ok, so this sounds like this could work in your favor. Dont go too much longer without talking about the love letter. You need to know how he feels about you...not just reasong his actions and body languages but hearing him say it. I've been in this situation, and waited almost two weeks before i or him brought it up, because I was nervous, like I'm guessing you are, beause you dont know waht he is really going to say. But I did it subtlely. i told him that I knew that he read it, and that i knew that he knew that he had to say something about it eventually (yes I made it sound confusing on purpose, to make it a lighter atmosphere). Anyway he got the picture, and i let him bring it up...no matter what exactly he says, you have to hear him say what he feels. I loved the guy too, so i know how you feel. BUt you have to confront him...about him having sex w/you and having a girlfriend and then breaking up with her, and where that leaves you guys. With my situation, I talked with him on the phone the same day he read it, and he never brought it up. So you have to take the initiative. I hope he says what you hope that he says. I hope I helped!

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot for answering
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