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Q: ok theres a girl at my school, we spend nearlly all of our time together, last night she told me that she fancied me a little bit and to be honest i tihnk i fancy her a little too but i have for about 3 days, she has a boy freind so i'm not getting invold anytime soon. but you her telling me you fancyd me would you like to know i fancy you back? becuase i havent told her yet, theres been a couple of scenarios running round my head

1.) she'll want to "get to know me" a ittle better by like flirting and just gettin close

(which i dont really want because she has a bf and i have had this trouble before and it ended out with a mass argument)

2.) she'll accept it and i can stop feeling uncomfortable around her

plz help muchy plz :D thanks in adv'*
Girls like to know that the guy they fancy, fancies them back. The boyfriend is a problem, and if she fancies you, I dont see why she's going out with him. Theres nothing wrong with letting her know that you fancy her. And for your scenarios:

1. There's nothing wrong with her wanting to get to know you better, and if she chooses to flirt with you and get close - I'm still wondering why she's with her bf if she wants to be flirting with you. So, it's more her problem in that aspect than yours.

2. She will most likely accept it (I mean, seriously, what girl doesn't like to find out that the guy she likes, actually likes her back?) but then she'll probably start flirting with you more and will try to get closer, but that's not your fault. So, try to get her bf to see that she likes you and that she's basically cheating on him in the sense that she likes you and is flirting with you.
Hope this helps some. Good luck with everythnig!

loved your answer thanks alot i know its been a while since i last looked upon my question but i'v still got the problem running around my head :/ thanks alot :D x .matt

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