This all depends on how long you've been with this guy and how long he's been ignoring you. If you've been with him for a decent amount of time (maybe 3+ months) and he's only been ignoring you for a little while, you could give him a chance. Maybe sit him down and maturely and calmly tell him what you're concerned about. Give him strong examples of times when you felt ignored and explain that when he ignores you it hurts. Don't accuse him of ignoring you because hey, he might really just be busy, and if you accuse him, he might get really defensive and we don't want that. :) If you don't feel comfortable confronting him about it, you could just see what happens over the next couple of weeks. Like I said previously, he might really just be busy with school or work or something. If he keeps ignoring you, or he doesn't communicate with you well when you confront him, I think it might be time to let him go.

Thanks. I did confront him and he kept on doing it. Like lastnight I even told him Ill stop calling so much if you promise to call me every once in a while. He said well Ill call you back and never... did. Dang, I think its time to let go, but it hurts to, cause we've had sex and everything and its hard to let someone go when you've had sex with them. Plus the first week we were dating he was perfect and b4 we even started dating, he bought me flowers and stuff. We're jsut kinda friends with benefits right now, maybe if we got back together he would have respect towards me again. But I think its time to let go, he shouldnt treat me like this, bf and gf or not. But yeah. Sorry for the long details. Lol.

My name is Ana, and I'm not real good at giving advice. A friend told me about this site and I thought it would be a good idea to join, in case I ever need to ask any questions.

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