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I'm a perfectionist I guess you could say. But I don't have like OCD and things don't have to be in the right spot..etc. However, on like tests and stuff, I study so hard and when I get the test back to find I got a 93%, I freak, beating myself up and things. The biggest problem is in school. If I don't get a 98-100% I tend to give myself a HARD time. How do I get over this? This happens in sports too. If I do one thing wrong (bad pass, miss a layup, etc.) that's all I think about the whole game, which causes me to mess up more.
Pleeeaassse... any help is welcome! Thanks!

I am the same way. Well not my grades but for soccer. Sports take dedication and so do getting good grades. If you put in your full effort and get a 93% just think to yourself you did the best that you could do. For the sports issues tell your team. That you need encouragement. They will become more positive and it will help the whole team out.

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