I am Samantha.
I am a friend.
I am a lover.
I like books and the weekend. I like summer and music and flowers. I don't like school or being cold. I don't like rejection or mood swings or bad hair days.
Website: Facebook
Gender: Female
Location: D-town
Occupation: Student/Cashier
Age: 16
Member Since: February 3, 2008
Answers: 80
Last Update: April 28, 2009
Visitors: 6305
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I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance? (link)
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You should not give him another chance. He is obviously using your for your body, and that's not what any girl deserves. Nobody should tell you to be something that you're not. Not a friend, not a boyfriend, not a teacher, not an enemy, not even your parents. You recognize that he doesn't respect you, but you need to respect yourself and break it off as soon as you can. Look for someone who respects you for WHO YOU ARE, because I'm sure there are tons of boys who will.
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