Gender: Female
Location: Dracut
Age: 15
Member Since: April 28, 2005
Answers: 28
Last Update: May 11, 2008
Visitors: 2754
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Okay, now most people who are going to read this, i dont really know how to word what im saying, but hopefully you'll be able to understand my situation.
now my problem is i feel weird around my parents, when im getting closer and closer with the boyfriend that i have, that they dont know about.
let me fill you in about my relationships with my parents & boyfriend. okay with my parents- im closer with my dad. hes really cool, like he's protective and cautious, but he knows when he needs to just lay off. he also is really smart, and helps me with alot of sticky situations. and my mom, im usually in that "mom leave me alone, im not in the mood. go away" phase, but shes pretty cool. but she can also be a little to noisy, and protective.
& my boyfriend, he really likes me. more then i like him. which is okay, i guess. hes extremely sweet, and respectable.
okay, back to my problem.
i feel kind of weird when we talk about our feelings for each other, like im kind of betraying my parents. i love my parents, but for some reason i just do not want to tell them i have a boyfriend. its just weird. and i do not want to tell them. so whenever my boyfriend and i get closer and closer, i just get a weird feeling like i shouldnt be with him. i dont know why i get that feeling, so i was hoping you could tell me what you think. i need some really good advice here, i dont know what to do.
i feel weird when it comes to boyfriends-family.
help?!
thank you guys (link)
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I'm not going to lie, by how you explained your situation, I think your a little too immature to even have a boyfriend if you can't tell your parents about him. It's not fair to your boyfriend or to your parents, and if you really liked this boy, than you would tell your parents about him. If your really that worried about what your parents are going to say than don't even bother being with him, because you clearly don't care about him that much.
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