I am Samantha.
I am a friend.
I am a lover.
I like books and the weekend. I like summer and music and flowers. I don't like school or being cold. I don't like rejection or mood swings or bad hair days.
Website: Facebook
Gender: Female
Location: D-town
Occupation: Student/Cashier
Age: 16
Member Since: February 3, 2008
Answers: 80
Last Update: April 28, 2009
Visitors: 6311
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14/f ok so there's this new girl, theresa, right? shes really cool & everything & we hang out a lot. but like she doesnt like one of my friends, sarah. but sarah is like all over theresa it almost looks like she wants to like marry her or something (not really, but you know what i mean) but i dont tell sarah that theresa hates her. theresa told me to but i won't, it's too mean. & theresa & sarah & me sits on the same lunch table since we're friends & then theresa goes to sarah, "ok, stop trying to impress me you are WAYY too annoying i really don't like you. you think you're cool but you're a loser." then she goes, "cmon hailey, let's go, " (im hailey- not giving out real names some people from school go here so) & i follow her to another lunch table. sarah & theresa wants me to choose sides. please if you're going say, "Don't choose a side, be neutral" that's sort of obvious & it's also obvious it's NOT GOING TO WORK! Just tell whose side it is better to be on. theresa is a little harsh & bitchy but its true that sarah thinks she's all that, so i don't know?? (link)
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Really, the fact that they want you to choose sides is bullcrap. Just back off of the situation and tell them both, "I don't want to be involved with your argument. I refuse to take sides because I don't have a preference, you are both my friends. Until you both settle down, I do not want to hear you talking about each other." This way, you are not taking sides. But you're not really neutral. Let them cool off, don't be someone they can vent to. This just worsens your position. Why would you want to take sides when you could lose a valuable friendship?
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