Hey everyone, I have been giving advice on this site since I was 16 and have always been honest with the askee. I just feel that there is no point in lying as I would hate to be lied too and thats why I always tell it like it is. I also feel that when people lie - it causes more hurt than good. Anyone after honest advice - feel free to send me a question!!
Also if you EVER need additional advice just send me an email and I will get back to you :)
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I have trouble talking to one of my best friends. I am f/15 and my friend is m/17. We do talk a lot and we get into deep conversations, but it's hard for me to talk to him. Like, when he tells me how he's sad or hurt I don't know what to say back to him. I also have trouble with just regular conversations. I don't know what to say to him. I feel like he already knows everything. He makes me nervous. I like him as more then a friend and he has a girlfriend(who is a b****). She treats him and me like crap and he just can't see it because he thinks he loves her. :( But anyway, he says I need to be more laid back and just talk to him and have fun, but it's just hard for me. Give me any advice you can. Thanks :) (link)
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I have had this prob before also, when hes talkin about bein sad or hurt then just listen and then just reasure him that no matter what he can talk to you and you could also at this point maybe share some of your hurt feelings you no then you may feel a lil more comfy around him. Try and when your talkin to him forget that you like him as more than a gd friend a no this is hard but you may feel a lil more at ease.
try speakin to him like you would a gf .
In the situation of his gf dont worry hell soon have enough of her and the way she treats him and although you will hav to grin and bare it just now in the end u will b there for him and if he confides in you then he prob already nos that.
Good Luk and I hope all is well with your situation soon.
I hope I helped.
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