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ooook so there is this guy. i met him in 2006 and ever since, he's all i've thought of. everything in my life i do to impress him or whatnot. hes one of my close friends and he knows i used to like him, although im sure he knows i still do. whenever im with him i just feel...happy. i feel like life is perfect and like i never want to go home. and when im not with him, i feel crappy. i feel self-conscious, depressed, etc. did i mention he goes to another school and i only see him like once every 3 weeks? so, as you can expect thats a lot of time feeling depressed and crappy.

i want my life to move on. usually about once a month i try to get a life of my own and make other friends and try not thinking about him. but it never works and im beginning to think it never will. so this is where i turn to advicenators. i need help. im sick of feeling depressed, im sick of not having my own life, im sick of my crappy friends who never want to talk about real-life problems, im just sick of the life i claim to live.

any thoughts?

funny thing is, I am kinda in the same situation, exvept i live 50 miles away from him, and I see him every weekend. But its not that i feel depressed when I'm not around him, but I just dont feel like talking to a whole lot of other people. So this is what you should do....win win situation: continue being around him whenever you can, since he makes you feel happy, but during the time that you are not with him, it is important to make a concious and hard effort to strike up conversations with other people (girls and es. guys). That way you are occupied, and you will start to feel better about yourself. Find other ways to occupy yourself. And another big suggestion (if you dont dothis already) start talking on the phone with the guy that you only see once every three weeks. Its easier to be away from someone if you keep in close contact during the week...whether it be phone, email, myspace, facebook, etc.
It will get easier....but only if you believe it will

I hope everything works out
XOXO

btw and if you are religious (cuz I am) ....try praying

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(Rating: 5) haha thanks. i do pray; but not for that. i'll try to add that in.

hes not really big on phones. he used to go on aim but he stopped which is dumb.

but thanks :D
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