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okay so this is SO complicated but please try & help me.

alright so i met this boy named james. we started talking. very flirty we were. after talking for a while everytime i went to a party or a guy friend he'd ask "did you do anything?" or before id go to a party or before a guy would come over he'd beg me not to do anything. like meaning kiss etc. so i was like hm okay. we'd always flirt and he'd always make me smile. then later on he told me he liked me. i was kind of like woahhh. but then more and more talking to him i started really liking him to. like to the point where he was the only thing i thought of. then one day we kind of got in a fight? so then my guy friend mark came over and then james was being like a total ass. like he wanted to fight mark becuase mark liked me. & im totally against fighting. so i was like fighting with james and was like no your not fighting him blah blah then hes like whatever ill talk to you later. so then i thought he didnt like me anymore. so i started being all flirtyish with mark. little did i know james was totally crushed. he didnt tell me so how was i supposed to know. well me and marks thhing ended pretty soon. and of course i still had strong feelings for james. me and james were on talking terms. then one random day this girl named shauna came along. like OUT OF NO WHERE. then he started liking her a lot. started putting her name everywhere. in his profile his myspace his away messages with the little (link)
Well, i am kinda confused to,
but think, do you really love him after he crushed you? and can you live without him, and how would it affect your life?

Then talk to him, and ask him to be serious, on talking terms, and no fighting, what the deal is with that other girl, and who he REALLY loves the most. you or her.

Then you can decide what you should do.

Good luck, I hope everything works out!


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thanks! but i know if i ask him hell say the other girl




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