I am just a girl. I am no special person. My friends have always asked me for advice, I have always been pretty good at giving it. I am a Christian. Sometimes that influences my advice, sometimes it doesn't. My mother has always told me I should work for a teen help hotline. I love helping people, it makes me feel like I'm useful.
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Age: 17
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k, well. i dated this guy and we had a really serious relationship; like to the point that i thought i acctually loved him, and im only in 8th grade, so i know i couldnt have been. but, we dated for almost a year and now ever since that i can't find someone to math with what we had. i mean, i really like this one guy but well its complicated. but he doesnt want to date, but i feel im ready for a relationship. and like, for a couple months now i feel kind of.. eh. un social? and i don't flirt as much as i used to. and i mean, im not saying i want a relationship with someone becase i flirted with them, and i know that if i want a good relationship i need to find someone that likes me for me and blah blah blah; ive heard it. but i mean, how could i flirt without being slutty but also being kind of serious. like, i need alot of options. like, things i could say things i could do. but, i also want to have fun doing it and not drive the guys away.
anything will help. (link)
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Right now it may feel as if a relationship is the most important thing. Honestly just be yourself around guys. Laugh, have fun, go to dances, enjoy it. Eventually the right one will notice how fun and easygoing you are and want to be around you. DONT try to flirt. Just be natural and you will have more fun. dont over analyze it.
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