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Member Since: August 17, 2006
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Last Update: January 17, 2008
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Ok. So i'm not a virgin, but my boyfriend is, and I want to have sex with him and all, but I don't know how to start off. Like I don't want to have to tell him what to do ("ok, take your pants off", "Come here," "do this do that") you know?
So is there anything I can do to make him want to be in control. We talk about it and stuff and he tells me all that he WANTS to do, but it never happens. Does that mean he's scared of me? I like him and all and think hes overly sexy but he's not that experienced and stuff. I don't know how to get him to warm up to anything either. I've always gone out with more experienced guys.

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Well, start off by just telling him to do what feels right insted of pressuring him or coaching him. Then gently unzip his pants and pull them and his underwear down if u guys are really into it. If he doesnt want sex- he'll tell you. Now, ifhe doesnt know how to use a condom, put it on for him. many guys get turned on by that. then just sorta lead him with body signals


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