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Hey everyone. First, I'd like to apoligize in advanced if this is long. But this is something that has been bothering me for a while. So this year, I've noticed a change in me. I can't exactly pin point it. I seem to have a lot more confidence, my styles switches slightly, and I'm making lots of new friends. All of these sound good right? Well according to a 'friend' of mine, I appear to think I'm better then everyone else which isn't the case AT ALL. I don't like conceited people and I know I have nothing to feel superior about. The problem is, my idea of right and wrong has kind of switched and all though I'm still a good kid (I don't smoke or do drugs, or steal) things that used to make me feel guilty, don't bother me anymore. I don't have as much of a problem lying to my parents (we don't seem to get along that well anymore) and I hang around some kids that do bad things, even though I don't. I've noticed that one of my friends and I have grown a lot closer, but me and some of my old friends have started drifting apart. I don't really know who I am anymore and that scares me because I like to be in total control of things. I don't really have a specific question, I'd just like some assurance from people who have experienced things like this, and maybe some advice to help me stay grounded, and figure out who I am. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read/answer this! ♥

so I've noticed this in myself this year, your probabyl drifting from your old friends because you've changed and grown up in a way, but they haven't. your not conceited, you just have self confidence. Just dont care what people think about you, and be yourself, and have fun. Just dont be mean to your old friends, cause that gets you no where. so basically have fun, but dont get into trouble like your new friends

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