Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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Age: 23
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Alright if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. Anyways alright to get right down to it here is my problem, I moved from New York to Illinois to be with my boyfriend of 6 years. Well before i moved i always had a little thing for his best friend Nick. The problem is this my boy is great i love him to death but i have troubles being uhm sexually his.. im a bit premiscuous i know its bad im a tease i cant help it call me a slut and you wont get rated. Well iv slept with Nick when my boy goes off to work and i want to stop it.. but i think im falling for nick and falling out of love with my boy. Help me give me advice... (link)
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Thats a tuff one. You cannot change your feeling I think you deff. need to talk to Nick about what his feelings are. He may not be into you at all except for the fact of you and him having sex. There are more important things to a relationship than sex. I know you know that if you have been in a relationship for as long as you have. In my oppinion I think that you need to stay with your guy you have now unless he is treating you wrong just hang around a while you may just be getting bored. If you are dead set on quiteing sleeping with Nick then set limits for yourself like not to see him when your boy isnt around because then you will not be in that situation. If you are needing something new and fresh for sex try diff. positions and things like that. I do not know if you relize this or not but hunny you are cheating on him. It can be hard to face yeah I know from experience, just try and get yourself out of situations that you will be alone with Nick that is really all I can say and make sure you are spending quality time with your man. Im sure he cares alot about you and would probally FLIP if he knew about you and Nick. Also just rember if Nick is his bff then he might end up telling him about what you two have done if he ever gets mad at him or anything. Just something to think about. Feel free to come and talk to me if you need more help or anything. Good Luck!
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Thanks alot that helped, see i know what hes feeling if he ever found out because iv been cheated on several times before not with my boy but with others, and it doesnt feel right i just dont understand why i have no problem doing it ya know? but thanks so much.
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