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Okay, so I've been single for well, a long time and the only two boyfriends I had, well, it wasn't much different from just being friends with them. Which means:
1. I haven't had my first kiss.
2. I get nervous and shy when it comes to that kind of stuff.
About a week ago I started going out with my current boyfriend. And he actually wants to do stuff with me, like, he invites me to his house and puts his arm around me and stuff.
He had another girlfriend that he went out with for a long time, so I'm sure he knows how to be a good boyfriend.
The thing is, I'm not really sure about how to react to that stuff. Like, I want to be a good girlfriend, but I don't know how. Like, I think he wants to kiss me, but when I think about it, I don't know how to go about doing it. (link)
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To me the first kiss is a bit of a hype. Once you've done it, it's like rightttt what was i worrying for?
- Don't TRY to be a good girlfriend because trying too hard is going to result in not being yourself, which is seriously never the right way to go! Just be truthful.
- You may seem nervous, but i can tell you he'll be feeling it too!
- To be honest i've learnt the hard way that being shy really doesn't get you anywhere in life. You need to be confident in yourself then you'll have confidence in your relationship.
- There is no 'right way' to reacting to a kiss or anything like that, if you like it smile and enjoyy lol.
Anyway if your boyfriend had a long relationship with his ex he's probably self conscious too as he has been used to that girl for ages and now he's with a completely different girl who likes different things.
Just see how it goes, be confident and be yourself, it will happen soon enough and trust me, you'll wonder why you ever asked these questions, lol!
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Haha, yeah, I see your point. Thanks, your advice was pretty helpful :)
And by, "Being a good girlfriend" I meant, being able to spot hints about what he's going to do and when the right time is for that and try not to be as shy. XD
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