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Q: my boyfriend treats me bad sometimes... my friends HATE him, because once and a while... when they talk to me, i'm always crying over something he did. all of my friends tell me to break up with him, but that's the thing.. he's not all bad. i really like him too. sometimes, he'll give me the attitude and stuff like that.. and last night he let me cry.. he LET me cry. -__-" he said that i was doing this to myself, and it was all in my head.. when i know it wasn't all in my head because i'm usually a happy person, and i wouldn't cry for no reason. so when i was tearing up or crying.. he wouldn't comfort me. until i blow up like crazy.. THATS WHEN HE COMFORTS ME. when i wouldn't have been crying like that if he comforted me in the first place.. those are some of the things he does to me. i asked him to change for me.. because the stuff he does and says hurts me. so he PROMISED that he would. and it's been a while.. until last night he said he really will change this time for good. i don't really want to keep waiting to see if he really is going to. my friends says that if he really did care, he would've changed already. and he begged me for another chance and he PROMISED AGAIN, he really will change. i'm about to loose hope that he really is going to do this for me. all of this is getting me stressed out.. and i'm too young to be having this kind of stress.. and crying too hard to have my side hurting. should i give him another chance? or break up with him? or should i just wait and see what happens?

OHHH and again, he's not all that bad.. he changed a little and he says he did change.. but i just don't see it. -____-" but it's kind of hard for me to if he's treating me like this. and etc. do you think he really will change?

HELP ME PLEASE! by the way... me & him has been together for about 6 months.
well, it's quite obvious that you like him alot because you keep saying how nice he can be and stuff. and your friends tell you to break up with him and thats probably hard for you because you like him so much. now, maybe he hasn't changed yet because he doesn't know how. he's not sure what he's doing wrong and he's just doing it all over again. do you should sit him down and tell him what upsets you and if he can work on it. and he still doesn't over the next few weeks then you're gonna have to break it off. no guy is worth your tears and pain if they're not willing to change for you then you need a break. i hope it all works out :]

thank you sooo much! that helped me alot! :]

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Hey! My name is Paige. I've actually been on here before but i like, lost my password so i have to start all over again. i don't really have much to say, but you can ask me just about anything and i'll try and help you as best i can! :]

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