Member Since: November 13, 2007
Answers: 2
Last Update: November 16, 2007
Visitors: 1129
|
| |
I am SICk of sucking up to people but i don't no how to say no.
I jsut hate ti when people have any negative feelings towards me, even like the slightest feeling of annoyed.
Everyone knows that I have some money so they always ask for money but I need the money to last me a week for lunch and i can't say no so I'll give them like 1 dollar
and then in two days, no money.
what should i do? (link)
|
I had this problem.
But i fixed it.
The advice i was given by a dear friend was: The people that you need to suck up to in order for them to like you arnt that really that great of people if they need sucking up to.I did a reality check and turns out these people treated me like crap anyways. And also you live your life, dont let people's thoughts get in the way of you eating or doing what you want. Hows what they think going to mater in the long run?? I have to ask myself if im careing about myself first before caring about others.
|
|