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I consider myself to be a "normal" teenage girl. There really isn't anything outrageous that separates me from others so I consider myself to be painfully average. I can say that I do have a level head and I find it easier to give out advice than to come up with advice for myself. Hopefully I'll end up helping someone.

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Something is wrong with me and dont even know what it is i cant talk to anyone about anything because i always get like really emotional even when i'm talking to a counsler to change classes does anyone know whats worng with me i mean i feel like my parents want me to ask for help with homework and stuff but there not helping me and i really want to be home schooled but they just say no they wont listen to what i have to say and ok i hangout with my sister alot cause me and her have like the same best friends and anyway my sister is only a year older then me but i feel that the only thing they do is laugh at me and when i get upset and mad they just laugh at me more so i cant even show them i'm upset or mad cause after all that they just look at me like i'm stupid or something i feel like i'm just geting farther and farther behind on school work and i am spending more and more tiem jsut sitting somewhere thinking and spaceing out and stuff whats wrong with me? and i dont want anyone answering this saying talk to a therpist or something cause i cant i just need someones opinion on whats wrong with me


I hate to be the bearer of "bad" news but talking to someone is probably the only way you can figure it out. It's not bad talking to people. A counselor [not necessarily the one that you talk to about your classes] will not pass judgement. Their job is to help you figure out your thoughts and by getting to the root of your problems you can fix them. Even though that's not what you want to do or hear, the truth hurts. If you want answers you have to take charge in your life. It might be time to take charge and get your questions answered by doing something about it. Sorry if that's a little harsh but I've been in the same boat and I realize now that before you can get help you have to help yourself.

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot
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