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I am dating my friends ex, and have been dating him happily for about 5 months.
Yes, it was a bit dramatic at first, but everything between my friend and both of us is grand now. Thier relationship was a short one and they were pretty mis-matched.

The problem is a lot of our mutual friends don’t know this or they suspect it, but don’t actually know for certain. She never told anyone (I had mistakenly assumed she had told most people), and our friends are used to me being pretty tight lipped about my love-life. I’m not sure how to bring it up now without it seeming like I was misleading people before.

I doesn’t help that most of our friends did not like him during their short relationship (I practically loathed him myself). They were very dysfunctional and miserable together. I don’t expect our mutual friends to be happy for me or for us all to hang out as one big group or anything. I just feel like they should know.

Any thoughts on if/how to tell them?

hmmmm well with girls theres always drama. If you really like this guy then your friends should back you up one hundred percent. But if their you best friends they should know. of course their not gonna like it and be happy but they cant do anything about it.

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(Rating: 2) Did you even read what I had wrote? It doesn't seem like it.
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