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Hi,

The condition:
I have a female friend, who commonly wears very revealing clothing. Short shorts, or tops which show cleavage and stomach, etc. It seems a little bit wrong really.
Although I wouldn't want to go out with her, because of her slightly egotistical personality, and way of dressing, I find myself incredibly physically attracted to her, almost to the point of wishing I could seduce her, even though I know it would be a mistake.

So I know that being around a well bodied girl, in a state of scant dress (even though I don't look favourably on the behaviour) causes this reaction for me.

The Question:
Men in short shorts, etc, just seems like an even worse social wrong than women (although there's no real reason that it should be so, apart from that society is sexist).
I would like to know if there is a similar thing happens to women, around men of scant dress, or even simply showing as much arm and leg as they can, without seeming vulgar.

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you sound like your in your twenties and up, but i'll answer this from my point of view.
i'm fourteen.
when guys at my school wear sleeveless shirts, or plain t-shirts, i find it kind of hott.
because a lot of them have muscle and you can see all of it all the more better when they wear those kinds of shirts.
as for shorts, sometimes its cool because again with the muscles.
but otherwise, not any more than long pants.
and at the beach, where all the men are of scant dress most of my friends before physically attracted in the blink of an eye as long as they have muscle and aren't wearing super-tight speedos.
so, in conclusion, i guess any man can get away with anything as long as he has the muscle in the area he is exposing.
hope i helped.


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