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Hello, My name is Sierra. I am a high school student. But please dont let that fool you. I've been through more in my life then a teenager should have to. But i've grown and matured from thoes things. I'm open and honest, I love to give advice. I'm a very nice person. I have a wonderful stedy boyfriend whom i love more then anything.

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Ok I have a question about girls and there bgf's dating. My best guy friend and i really like each other and care for each other. He can't date but we are kinda 'together' in a way. Like im totally single and can flirt with any guys I want but i think if i got a bf he would be hurt. i dont know anyway 1) how do i get him to show me he cares about me. he has done it subtly before but not as of lately and i know he does but i want him to show me.

2) is it weird when a girl and bgf start dating because he and i have liked each other for so long and he cant date so when he can if we date i think it might just be weird to actually date him after not for so long and all that. we hold hands occasionally and hug and we kissed once and it would be kind of weird to start dating. my friends all say we are perfect for each other and we are a lot a like and they dont care when we flirt cause we do it constantly. everyone at our church says they have known we liked each other ever since meeting us. we are both japanese so everyone always thinks were brother sister and then thinks were dating after we tell them we arent. haha its never awkward but i want more of his attention and i dont really know how to get it so ideas are welcome.

To recap haha:
1) ideas for how to get him to show me he cares about me
2)is it weird for two pple like us to start dating after everything? we act almost like friends with benefits but we have only kissed once and its more than that because we really care about each other and i may flirt with other guys and he flirts with other girls i know he doesnt like another girl and i dont like another guy. also tho i just transferred schools so we wont see each other as often and i do want to date another boy but if i did i would end up cheating on him because my bgf and i are just so close and stuff.
3)how do i get his attention?
thanks so much and i will rate all your helpful advice! ;)

Well maybe try and tell him how you feel. And also when you guys can date, If it feels right just go for it, You know eachother well so you have a better chance of lasting. Remember this,

"Love is friendship on fire"

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(Rating: 5) thank you and that quote is GREAT!!! Im def. putting it on my buddy info! :)
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