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Q: okay i want everyone to be completely honest.
so me and this guy went out for like little more than half a year and then we broke up. but i found out like a week before we broke up he did stuff with this girl who happens to be related to me. and i understand why he did what he like we had a big fight because something stupid i did i didnt cheat but i made a mistake in listening to someone i barley knew over believing the guy that i loved with all my heart but any ways now this guy like talks to me every night and talks about how he wants to hookup and crap and i would definitely even though he has a new girlfriend(the girl he cheated on me with) and im still in love with him and i know he still loves me its a really hard situation, and most of you will probably think "if he cheated he doesnt love you" but it isnt like that. so i just want to know like would that make me like a slut or whore because of what im doing? like do you think that makes me a bad person?
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if he's seeing a new girlfriend (one that he cheated on you with) you should seriously back off
1. weren't you really upset when he cheated on you weren't you upset that your relative let that happen .. be the bigger person
2. if he's trying to hookup with you while he has a new girlfriend he's a scumbag.. he's a scumbag for cheating on you in the first place ;; and he definably is using you
if you do hookup with him you could very likely get that reputation .. i really don't think its a good idea
i know you love him but i think you love how he used to be.. do you really love cheating, lying, hurt "if he cheated he doesn't love you" but it isn't like that." sorry hun but i think it is =/
i don't even know you but you deserve better then that everybody does.. let it go move on
heartbreak happens to everyone
you'll meet a better guy that loves you enough not to cheat on you
if he only wants too hook up screw it BUT if he wants to get back with you have him break it off with his girl and take this extra slow and say i need to gain your trust back but if he backs off quickly you'll know he's using you
good luck and I'm really sorry about your situation
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thanks, that did actually help me.
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i'm renee. i'm nice and fun. i'm new to the site but i usually give great advice; i've been through alot of shit i usually relate to people's problems and love helping people out ;; i'm best at giving advice on love and relationships .. try meee =]
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Gender: Female Location: Boston MA Occupation: cashier Age: 15 Member Since: October 12, 2007 Answers: 26 Last Update: December 27, 2007 Visitors: 3175
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